7 THINGS YOU SHOULD DOUBLE DOG NOT GIVE A SHIT/FUCK ABOUT AS AN ADULT...

Sep 29, 2016 by

It is just too damn exhausting to give a shit sometimes.   That’s just the bottom line.   Life is hectic as is! And if you’re anything like me, your mind is constantly on the run, you are always trying to improve yourself,  you have kids, school, work, a business and you know what? Even if you’re not as busy, giving a shit is still exhausting.  Chances are you’ve been in enough shit to last you a life time and you’ve just had enough of giving a shit about shit! Listen, it doesn’t take turning 40 or having a baby to stop giving a shit.  Pay attention to what drains you and stop giving a shit about THAT THING…NOW! You will know exactly when you are losing the good fight to hold on to the shits to...

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Bi**es w/Bundles Have Bad Attitudes; and Best Friends...

Aug 25, 2016 by

Discussion: Why do women with expensive fake hair have bad attitudes? Being there for my...

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Those Who Pray With You… Stay With You...

Jul 27, 2016 by

Sometimes life is so damn hard.  There are decisions to be made constantly, pain to be cured always, old wounds opening up from time to time, things that you need to learn to let go, the job is wilin’ you out, the kids are out of order, the man ain’t acting right, friends are buggin, family is trifling, things just won’t add up to make sense.  But you fight the good fight. You persevere through life’s ills.  You find your footing.  You pray, you soldier on, you come out of the dark. You find your joy! You find your light!!! Because you fought so hard to find that light you will protect it with the strength of 1,000 soldiers.  That is when people begin to fall out of your life. Not because they aren’t worthy...

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Stop Keeping Score of People’s Actions...

Jun 23, 2016 by

Because women are emotional creatures we often get all up in arms when someone doesn’t show up to something important or when someone constantly hurts us, shades us, does us wrong.  Why? Because we are too god damned concerned with loving other people more than we are about loving ourselves. We give other people too much power over ourselves because we are natural people-pleaser’s, nurturers etc. We want to take care of people, understand people, give second, third and fourth chances, but at what cost? Sometimes ladies, I think we validate ourselves too much by how many people are around us, how many likes we get, how many events we are invited to etc.  How is this even healthy? If you live for a man’s compliments surely you will suffer and die from his...

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“Make That Move” By Ayana Ellis...

Jun 9, 2016 by

Day in and day out you watch the ships roll in and you watch them roll away again.  You’re frustrated, you’re aggravated because you know there is something that you should be doing but you can’t seem to figure out what.  Even more frustrating is knowing what you should be doing but for the life of you, you just can’t figure out where to start. Times a wasting kid! But you know what we do? We allow that paralyzing fear of failure to keep us stagnant.  We are so afraid of becoming who we know lives inside of us because we are afraid of leaving behind what we have become comfortable with.  But every night we toss and turn after laying in bed for hours day dreaming about the life we want to live, yet we...

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